Being aware of the processes in a marriage can help you realize which you and your partner have reached, helping explain what might seem to be strange in behavior. They can help in your journey to a healthy relationship; you can find 6 relationship stages, as follows:
The attraction stage
During this initial stage each partner are hoping to get along and please one another; you both are trying to make things work out. At that stage, neither of you will have seen your respective bad sides since you'll have both showed only your best sides. This is the place where we usually are in love, and see only the best qualities of the partner.
Perturbation stage
Now each of you start noticing the differences between each other. Conflicts arising but they usually handled fast. During this stage, the partners either handle this or it may lead to separating.
The molding stage
Each partner accept and appreciate each other's weak points; they try not to use force and realize that sometimes love brings not only positive aspects to their life.
Happy stage
If your relationship survives the previous stage, both partners relax their boundaries and realize that they'll never alter the other person completely. They start appreciate each other more giving mutual respect and deeper love feelings.
The surrender stage
Couples give up to reality and accept that relationships can have their shortcomings too. Here they figure out how to love each other and truly feel their connection. It can be indication that you are both prepared to commit long term together.
The complete trust and love stage
This is basically the final stage; your trust to each other at this moment becomes unbreakable. Couples begin working on projects together, and they also become a real team; this is certainly apparent for everybody around.
Let's say you falter at one of 6 stages.
The most essential thing here is communication. Let your second half speak first without interrupting thus solve out most of your issues at the beginning. You may have to realize that you see variety of things differently. Try to find a method to fully understand this different from yours opinion rather then make an attempt to change your partner and his or her point of view.
Hope it is more clear now what point your relationship are at, and when you do I'm sure this knowledge may help you find the best partner!
The attraction stage
During this initial stage each partner are hoping to get along and please one another; you both are trying to make things work out. At that stage, neither of you will have seen your respective bad sides since you'll have both showed only your best sides. This is the place where we usually are in love, and see only the best qualities of the partner.
Perturbation stage
Now each of you start noticing the differences between each other. Conflicts arising but they usually handled fast. During this stage, the partners either handle this or it may lead to separating.
The molding stage
Each partner accept and appreciate each other's weak points; they try not to use force and realize that sometimes love brings not only positive aspects to their life.
Happy stage
If your relationship survives the previous stage, both partners relax their boundaries and realize that they'll never alter the other person completely. They start appreciate each other more giving mutual respect and deeper love feelings.
The surrender stage
Couples give up to reality and accept that relationships can have their shortcomings too. Here they figure out how to love each other and truly feel their connection. It can be indication that you are both prepared to commit long term together.
The complete trust and love stage
This is basically the final stage; your trust to each other at this moment becomes unbreakable. Couples begin working on projects together, and they also become a real team; this is certainly apparent for everybody around.
Let's say you falter at one of 6 stages.
The most essential thing here is communication. Let your second half speak first without interrupting thus solve out most of your issues at the beginning. You may have to realize that you see variety of things differently. Try to find a method to fully understand this different from yours opinion rather then make an attempt to change your partner and his or her point of view.
Hope it is more clear now what point your relationship are at, and when you do I'm sure this knowledge may help you find the best partner!
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